The reality of cloudy days
Just like the rain pouring down on my skylight, the tears came this morning, pouring from my eyes. Grief is part and parcel of the human experience, a great sense of loss when our loved ones leave us, and we feel utterly alone without them. And even though my beliefs tell me otherwise, assuring me of their continued love, life and presence all around me, I fall into the deep despair of wanting to be in the same world. Then I realize that truly, grief isn’t sadness for the one who is not here on earth, but sadness for ourselves in having to be here without them. It helps to think of them in a wonderful place full of love, free of any earthly pain or burdens. But still, grief has its constant cycle, a rhythm all its own, that will play out with me until I am reunited with my love.
The Visitor
It wasn’t on my calendar
This appointment with grief
So sure I had cancelled it
But grief arrived anyway
Unannounced
It stands at the threshold of my soul
If I ignore it, will it go away?
I’ve tried that
It always stays
I find its patience intolerable
I give in and open the door
Letting it enter my home
It walks inside with muddy shoes
Such a rude guest!
It shows no manners
As it shoves my heart aside
And proceeds to turn me inside out
I am a tolerant hostess
I weep as it sits at my table
I try not to feed it
Hoping it will leave
I must have dozed off
For now my home is peaceful
Grief no longer sits at my table
In its place
Is a vision of myself
Colorful intensity
Now brilliant